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In the past year I've had five female friends who have snooped on their men and it's taught me one thing. If you feel the need to snoop, it's better to just walk away. One of two things will happen. Either you'll find nothing and dig further until any little infraction - an email saying "hi" from another female, even - will give you the ammo you need to attack your man and then cause irreversible problems, OR, you'll find out he's cheating or almost cheating or doing things you find unacceptable, and once confronted, he will leave or stay amd keep treating you in an inferior way.

So save your energy for something prosperous and positive. Minimize the damage to your health and ego and make the decision you don't need to be involved with someone who makes you doubt you, him, or much of anything else. Have strength, demonstrate grace, be prideful in all you do.